Being asked to be a bridesmaid is an honor, a joy, and, let’s be honest—a financial commitment. As much as we all love celebrating our closest friends, the price tag of standing by their side on the big day can add up quickly. At For Your Party, we’re all about helping you celebrate in style—without losing your budget or your mind. So let’s break down the average bridesmaid cost and everything that comes with it.
Whether you’re a bride trying to be mindful of your besties’ budgets or a bridesmaid figuring out how to navigate the expenses, this is the guide for you.
Understanding the Bridesmaid Cost
A typical bridesmaid cost varies widely depending on the wedding style, location, and the couple's expectations. On average, being a bridesmaid in 2025 can cost anywhere from $1,200 to $2,000, according to recent reports. And that number can climb quickly based on other factors (if it’s a destination wedding, a packed bachelorette weekend, etc).
Let’s break that down and look at where all that money is going:
Bridesmaid Dress & Alterations: $200–$500
This is often the first big expense, but it’s also an exciting chance to find a dress that makes you feel amazing! Some brides choose affordable, versatile styles that you can wear again, while others go for elegant gowns that truly make the day special, even if they cost a bit more. As for tailoring the gown, it’s a small investment that ensures your dress fits like a dream, so you’ll look and feel flawless on the big day.
Shoes & Accessories: $50–$150
From matching heels to statement earrings, the accessory list can be long. Sometimes the bride will gift these to you (thank you!), but often, it’s on the bridesmaid to complete the look.
Hair, Makeup & Beauty Prep: $100–$250
If the bride is bringing in a glam squad, expect to chip in. Professional hair and makeup usually cost around $100 each. Throw in a mani/pedi or a spray tan, and this category can get pricey.
Travel & Accommodations: $300–$600+
Out-of-town or destination wedding? You’ll need to budget for airfare, hotels, rideshares, and maybe even time off work. Sharing rooms or carpooling can help, but this is often the most unpredictable expense.
Bachelorette Party: $150–$500+
From cozy glamping weekends to unforgettable trips in Nashville or Miami, the bachelorette party is where the bridesmaid cost can really add up—but it’s all part of creating amazing memories! Flights, accommodations, delicious meals, coordinating outfits, and matching themed decor (hello, custom drink pouches!) all come together for a celebration to remember. A few of our favorite decor picks? Personalized frosted cups, stylish cocktail napkins, and our custom itineraries that bring a fun, cheeky vibe to any party.
Bridal Shower: $50–$150
Typically hosted by the maid of honor or bridesmaids, the shower may include venue rentals, decorations, food, and games. Custom napkins, signage, and favors from For Your Party make for Instagram-worthy moments—without breaking the bank. Try our foil-printed guest towels, personalized matchboxes, and stir sticks to add that luxe feel.
Gifts for the Bride: $50–$200
From engagement to wedding day, there are multiple opportunities to gift the bride. A thoughtful, personalized touch (like custom coasters or a monogrammed tote) goes a long way and can be found at every price point. We love our custom gift tags to give your gift a unique finishing touch.
Real Talk: Hidden Bridesmaid Costs You Might Not Expect
It’s not just the big-ticket items. Little things—like dress steaming, shipping fees for online orders, or last-minute errands—can sneak up on you. Not to mention the emotional cost: taking time off work, managing group chats, and navigating the pressure to "look the part."
That’s why it's smart to plan ahead, set a personal budget, and talk openly with the bride or bridal party about expectations. Communication is key.
How to Save on the Bridesmaid Cost Without Skipping the Fun
We’re all about stylish celebrations, but we also believe in smart spending. Here are some ways to trim the bridesmaid cost without compromising on the experience:
Go custom, but keep it cute. Personalized accessories from For Your Party like cocktail napkins, favor bags, and cups can add flair without blowing your budget.
Group gifts. Splitting larger gifts with the bridal party saves money and still feels generous.
Reuse & recycle. Choose accessories and outfits you’ll actually wear again. Pro tip: a neutral clutch or chic heels go with everything.
DIY where it counts. Custom signage, favor tags, or photo booth props? Design your own and print them affordably.
Plan early. Flights, hotels, and rental outfits are almost always cheaper the earlier you book.
Bridesmaid Budget Breakdown: Sample Spreadsheet
Here’s a quick look at what a typical bridesmaid budget might look like:
This is just a ballpark—and can swing lower or higher depending on the wedding. But it’s a great place to start when budgeting your bridesmaid cost.
What Brides Can Do to Help
If you’re the bride, there are a few ways to ease the financial burden for your bridal party:
Be upfront about expectations. The earlier your bridesmaids know what’s required, the easier it is to plan.
Offer flexibility. Let them choose from a color palette instead of a specific dress or opt for optional professional glam.
Gift generously. Covering costs for hair/makeup, accessories, or hotel rooms goes a long way in showing appreciation.
Appreciate their effort. Whether it’s a heartfelt note, a fun brunch, or custom gifts from For Your Party—make your bridesmaids feel the love. Think: personalized candle tins, cute matchboxes, or custom welcome bags filled with essentials.
Final Thoughts on the Bridesmaid Cost
The role of a bridesmaid is about more than money—it’s about friendship, support, and shared celebration. That said, it’s okay to acknowledge that the bridesmaid cost is real. With a little planning, creativity, and a few budget-friendly touches from For Your Party, it’s totally possible to be a supportive bestie without breaking the bank.
So grab your planner, start that group chat, and check out our curated bridesmaid and bachelorette accessories to make every event personal, stylish, and totally worth it.
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